Why Am I Here? Finding, Understanding, and Living in God’s Purpose

Too many times we hear preachers talk about finding purpose. At first, it might sound vague or overused, but when you hear it repeatedly, not just from your own pastor, but maybe from social media, a church program, or a guest minister, it begins to stir something inside. You begin to wonder: “What does purpose really mean? Why am I here?”

This blogpost  is for:

• those still trying to find their purpose,
  
• those who have an idea but don’t know how to begin, and
  
• those who are already walking in it.

What Is Purpose?

Purpose is the core reason for our existence. As believers, we’ve been assigned one or more assignments by our Creator to fulfill on this earth.

Purpose varies from person to person, but it always involves making a positive impact: whether on a few people or many. True purpose is never rooted in selfish ambition. It’s meant to serve others, to edify the body of Christ, and to glorify God.

That doesn’t mean you won’t benefit personally, financial doors may open, you might receive recognition, but these are by-products, not the focus.

Let’s take your favorite gospel artist as an example. Their songs are like healing balms to the brokenhearted. They are serving others with a gift from God, and as they bless lives, they are also blessed.

“Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.” — 1 Peter 4:10 (NIV)

To Those Who Are Yet to Discover Their Purpose:

If this is you, listen up—you are not any less of a child of God. You’re simply in a phase that requires deeper focus and intentionality in the place of prayer.

Go to God. Ask Him. He’s not hiding your purpose.

“Call to Me and I will answer you, and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.” — Jeremiah 33:3 (NIV)

Even before you were born, your purpose was already established.

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart.” — Jeremiah 1:5 (NIV)

Ask God to reveal your purpose through the ways He communicates with you: dreams, nudges, people, or even the little assignments you’re already doing for others. Maybe you speak life into people going through difficult seasons. Don’t ignore that prompting—it’s often the seed of purpose.

To Those Who Know Their Purpose But Don’t Know How to Start:

I was once here. Let me share my story:

Since childhood, I always knew I wanted to help people—especially in the medical field. I wanted to be a missionary. This desire started when I saw my childhood friend’s mum and dad traveling the world, sharing Jesus. She used to appear on local TV, confident in her message. I admired her boldness.

But I didn’t just want to speak about Jesus—I also wanted to educate people about their health. I wanted to break harmful beliefs, like the idea that using medicine shows a lack of faith.

This desire never left, but I didn’t know how to start. I carried this feeling for years.

Then during a very tough season for my family during COVID, I spoke to our pastor. I remember making a promise to God:
“If You bring us through this, I will serve You in every season and bring this purpose to life.”

Though my journey started earlier—quietly—in 2016 during a trip to Mexico, I visited a substance abuse home, a public school, and an orphanage. I partnered with a local health organization. I brought school supplies; they provided refreshments and oral health kits. That was my first step.

After COVID, I became more intentional. In 2021, I went back to Mexico to continue the work. Then in 2023, during another difficult life transition, I prayed again:
“Lord, send help. Ease my discomfort. Bring this purpose fully alive.”

One day, I was on the phone with my friend, sharing my dream to start a medical outreach foundation. She took it personally. She told me she had the same burden. The next day, she sent me long messages and voice notes detailing how to get started. She was serious—and she was my confirmation.

She was my God-sent.

A big shoutout to Bisola Adekunle, God used us both to start Tabitha Healthcare Outreach Foundation. Bisola, being the daughter of a preacher and a woman of God, was able to draw up a strategy and structure. With her help, we started something solid in Nigeria.

Now we’re almost two years in, and all I can say is:
To God alone be the glory.

“Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.” — Proverbs 11:14 (ESV)

So, if you’re in this stage, pray. Ask God to send your Bisola—someone with the wisdom, heart, and tools to help you build. Purpose is not meant to be done alone.

To Those Who Are Already Living in Their Purpose:

Congratulations. You’ve taken bold steps of obedience. I pray that you never grow weary.

“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” — Galatians 6:9 (NIV)

But here’s a gentle reminder:

Don’t get distracted. Don’t shift the spotlight to yourself. Purpose isn’t a platform for ego—it’s a ministry. Always remember the One who called you.

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” — Colossians 3:23 (NIV)

Let your consistency be rooted in love, service, and humility. Build a legacy that reflects God, not just your gifts.

In Summary:

Whatever your purpose is, I pray you find it. Your purpose doesn’t have to look like your parents’, your friends’, or your siblings’. You are uniquely created.

“We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us.” — Romans 12:6 (NIV)

Let God help you discover it. Let Him equip you. Let Him send the right people.And when you find it, walk in it with confidence, knowing that you were made for such a time as this.